Tag: Children

Harry Beattie was born at 27 weeks in Raigmore Hospital Inverness after an spontaneous rupture in the membrane at 22 weeks. He was ventilated for 3 months and had a Patent Ductus Arteriosus closed in Glasgow prior to this. Due to an ongoing chest infection Harry had many stays in hospital. On one occasion he was so ill, he was transferred to Royal Hospital for Sick Children. Harry ended up being there for 3 months with a tracheotomy at the end of this. Having two other children at home who were adopted (Harry was an IVF baby), was really difficult.

Natasha Bolger from Disabled Living interviewed Harry Beattie’s mum, Beverley.

Please can you tell us about Harry’s background?

At 11-years-old the next big admission was to try ventilation as he had hypoventilation. Now, Harry ventilates via a tracheotomy 24/7. He has had very little admissions for his chest since this, until recently. I think he finds life tougher as he gets older and feels tired more easily. Harry has always been the happiest wee boy and although he is in a chair and can’t speak, boy can he get his point across… he is definitely the ‘boss’! Others will ask if I’m his personal assistant (or I’ll ask if I’m his slave) and Harry shakes his head and sticks out his tongue. This is Harry’s way of responding with ‘yes’. So I know my place! He understands every word and can answer a yes or no question by actions I’ve just
mentioned.

Harry has severe cerebral palsy affecting all four limbs and has severe dystonia which causes him so much pain. We are waiting for results from St Thomas’ Hospital in London about having Deep Brain Stimulation to help manage his dystonia and hopefully managing his pain better as he is on a ton of medication to try and help this. He absorbs medication really quickly and what he is on should knock out a horse, but not our Hars!

What are Harry’s favourite things/hobbies?

Harry loves books including audio books. TV is also a big hit with CBeebies being his favourite. I tell him he is too old for it but he doesn’t care!

What was it like meeting Harry Hill?

Harry Hill has been so kind to him. He invited Harry to London to watch the recordings of his show ‘Alien Fun Capsules’. Harry giggled all the way through! We are still in touch with Harry Hill who is an absolute gentleman. .

..And Prince Harry too! Can you describe what that was like?

Harry was awarded a ‘Well Child Award’ in 2017 – nominated by the Well Child nurses in Edinburgh. He won the Inspirational Young Person Award. We are so proud of Harry getting this award. He has had such a tough life and never complains, unless I’m not doing what he wants!

Prince Harry is the patron for this charity and he is such a genuine, down-to-earth and funny man who understood Harry’s sense of humour. They enjoyed a bit of banter throughout the evening. They both said I “forced Harry to wear the kilt”. So before the end of the evening, Prince Harry took a few steps back and leaned in to my Harry to say, “Remember, do not let your mum make you wear that kilt again if you don’t want to!” Of course, Harry giggled. The evening was a star studded affair and the children were
the stars that night – just as they deserved to be.

Is there anything else you would like to add?

This is not the journey we would have chosen for our child, but hand on heart I wouldn’t change a thing (apart from him being in pain) he is an inspiration to us all and makes us laugh every day! We have met amazing people through Harry he has definitely made us better people by having him in our lives. One amazing kid!

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The idea of ‘Jolly Josh’ months ago was ‘pure imagination’. A chain of events would lead me to realise that there was a gap in the system; the solution would become Joshua’s legacy. 

We have a large, loving, supportive family who were with us every step of Joshua’s Journey. And we also have a wonderful network of friends. Yet I still wanted to meet someone ‘living’ a similar situation. At the time we knew that Joshua had suffered from ‘extensive brain damage’, we knew that his milestones would differ from other children’s. We had 20+ professionals supporting us. We knew that we were submerged in to a world of special needs and that we’d do everything we could to support Joshua to reach his own potential. At this point, we were unaware that Joshua’s condition was ‘life shortening’.

I met one particular mum at a baby class that I took Sophie and Joshua to. Her daughter also had an NG (Nasogastric Tube), the first child (other than Josh) that I had met with one. I instantly struck up conversation, I had a million questions to ask, and I was excited that Josh would know that he wasn’t the only child with a feeding tube up his nose. Now, this mum comes to Jolly Josh and we have become friends.

I attended an event for parents and carers of disabled children in 2017. It was a brilliant event with lots of professionals providing information about their services. I had just been granted reduced hours, stepping down from full time work to part time, to be with Joshua and attend appointments, etc.

I visited each stand in the hope to find services that would help Joshua and our circumstances, sadly they were minimal.

We already had a play worker, other than this nothing applied to Joshua as he was under 4 years of age. Services seemed to come in to place when children started school and I didn’t want to wait until then to meet other parents/carers in the same situation. I wanted to access as much as I could before then to help Joshua to develop and reach his potential and I also wanted to meet other mums. I was left feeling extremely disappointed, that’s most definitely not meant with any disrespect! This is when I knew that Jolly Josh was going to make an impact.

When I began to vocalise my idea of Jolly Josh ‘Stay and Play sessions’, the notion was very misunderstood. Some thought of it as a ‘respite’ session. I was actually told ‘I never left my child.’ You can imagine my response to that; I had worked full time up until very recently. Did this comment mean that are parents/carers of disabled children are expected to abandon careers or have the finances to stop working? Also, this remark was a huge detriment to the value and importance of respite.

In addition I was told it was believed that children of preschool age were at home with their parents. Mine hadn’t been as I worked. Yet now that I worked part time did that mean I was to stay indoors, hidden, adding to the isolation of having a child with complex needs?

I approached Joshua’s care team, his Consultant Paediatrician, his nurses, his Health Visitor etc. And they were all incredibly enthusiastic. I asked if they’d consider being trustees if I was to create a charity. They happily agreed.

Over Easter Joshua’s health began to rapidly decline and in May 2017 we were given the devastating news that he had ‘weeks if months until he found peace.’

I gave up work and became Joshua’s full time carer; I was now a ‘stay at home’ mum to both my babies. Though we didn’t stay at home very often. We were out and about making as many memories as possible!

We went on to spend a lot of time at Manchester Children’s Hospital and stayed at Derian House Children’s Hospice on many occasions. During this time I met another mum. We discussed the many challenges facing our children, their siblings and our family. For example, required yet expensive home improvement changes, the need for public Changing Places, etc. Sophie enjoyed playing with her daughter and I realised that she also would benefit from meeting other ‘young carers.’

This (for me) verified the need for Jolly Josh

During this time I also focused on Jolly Josh. I planned a timetable of professionals to attend each week, also planning weekly educational and sensory themed sessions. And I acquired toys, seating aids and resources. I broached Mrs Fierro at Springside School who was fully supportive of the concept of Jolly Josh, so much so that she gained permission for our sessions to be held at Springside School.

Joshua passed away on 27th August (8 months ago), exactly a month before we were due to open Jolly Josh. I knew that we had to continue. It was perhaps a distraction but it became a positive focus. I planned a very successful open day which I had many volunteers to thank for! The day was incredible but Joshua’s physical presence was very much missed.

I am incredibly proud of what we have achieved in such a short space of time. Our sessions have been very informative, a wide range of professionals have provided advice to parents/carers. We have worked closely with Springside School to introduce children who will be future pupils. We have set up a lovely peer support group; parents are making good relationships, exchanging ideas, concerns and experiences. In addition, our children are making friendships and thriving, their siblings gaining support too.

Children play alongside one another, inclusively, some questioning, for example, “Why does that boy have a tube up his nose?” and learning children are all different and that’s what makes them all special. We are creating an awareness of our children’s differences in a safe and secure environment, hoping to educate the community and promote inclusion.

I have many dreams for the future of Jolly Josh. And I am hopeful that we can ‘Connect, Support, Thrive and Inspire Inclusion.’

To learn more about Jolly Josh please visit their website. You can also follow them on Facebook and Twitter.

This Story of the Month has been written by Gareth Brown, Development Manager at AAT GB Ltd for Disabled Living.

In October 2017, we received a video clip from an OT from Northern Ireland. She was making an enquiry about buying a Chillibean. This is one of our Stabilo vacuum posture cushions. Nothing unusual in that, it is a very popular and versatile piece of equipment after all. However, that’s where normal ended and an adventure began!

Jolene Allen is a missionary Occupational Therapist working out in Kenya. She runs a centre called the Metropolitan Sanctuary for Children with Disability in Nyeri. In her video, she described a country where approximately 70% of the population of children with a disability live below the poverty line. Free healthcare is extremely limited to children under 5-years-old for rehab. Physio and government hospitals are overwhelmed with huge queues and limited resources. Assistive devices such as Orthotics, prosthetics and wheelchairs sadly aren’t free. Also, there aren’t affordable to most people or are impractical.

Having a child with a disability can be stigmatised and is believed to be a curse to many families.

The sad results of this are that, many mums are left to cope with children with disabilities on their own with little or no social support. Often, mothers themselves buckle under the pressure of stigma and self blame. They run away, deserting the child. Many get raised by grandmothers. Many get abandoned. Tragically, in some tribes, they are not allowed to live. The reality of this is that many children spend their lives lying on a bed looking at the ceiling, and are often left all day. Sometimes, they’re tied to the bed, while the mum has to go out and work just to be able to support the family and survive.

Sadly, there aren’t support systems for feeding or supportive seating. So, deformities go unchecked and many of these children don’t survive into adulthood.

It’s a pretty gloomy picture for such a fast developing African country. Though the government and charitable organisations are endeavouring to develop health services, progress is slow. Particularly in the area of custom made adaptive seating, which still remains out of reach for the vast majority who would benefit from it. Should a child be fortunate enough to have rehabilitation services, it’s common that staff who ought be prescribing equipment, are largely accustomed to disregarding positioning altogether.

So what’s Jolene up to?

She’s been at the Sanctuary for over seven years now, overseeing the rehab services including therapy services, medical reviews, medicine, day care, counselling, support and even residential services for the most disadvantaged children. She established a social enterprise hub, which involves employing mothers of children with disability to make paper with recycled materials and create beautiful hand crafted art.

The really amazing part is what they’re making for the children. Jolene has mastered the art of using recycled cardboard and paper to make custom postural seating and equipment. Each child is assessed and measured and has a perfectly matched cardboard chair (or standing frame, or combination of the two) made for them. This allows them to be able to sit up and be part of family life. It helps their posture, breathing, swallowing and digestion and raises their quality of life to unprecedented levels. Families are also gently educated in the importance of this when they are given the equipment as well.

Not resting on her laurels, Jolene has been tackling ever more challenging seating for the children. She uses extremely complex shapes, vacuum bags, vacuum cleaner and polystyrene beads to create moulded patterns. And then making papier-maché seating systems mounted into cardboard bases. This has proven quite a difficult undertaking with such basic but ingenious equipment, which triggered her call for help to us.

We were so inspired by her amazing creativity and achievements. AAT donated a Stabilo Grande mattress to the Sanctuary to use for creating the moulded seats. This proved to be a very useful tool for making more accurate moulds and is now used to form plaster of Paris body templates of each child so a custom seat can be made. I also offered to help with advice. And after many, quite technical conversations, it was clear that talking about it just wasn’t good enough.

An inspirational adventure

An adventure was long overdue for me. So, mid February found me on a plane heading out to Nairobi on my first ever trip to Kenya. What a week it was! I had a very busy time. First, coaching everyone on how to get the best out of the Stabilo cushion. Then we experimented with the various techniques used in the UK for creating custom moulded seating but adapted them to using only the resources available locally. It was such a rewarding experience and a privilege to work with Jolene and her team of dedicated staff. We had great fun problem solving on such a practical level where every tiny improvement would make such a huge difference. I could easily have stayed for a month and still had so much more to do.

So, what next?

A return trip is certainly on my to-do list! They are currently raising the funds to build the next part of the Sanctuary, a three storey building to house children during extended intensive therapy visits, accommodation and training facilities for OTs, physios and families. There’s still a long way to go but the ground has already been excavated and the giant retaining wall has been built by hand over the last 9 months.

The Cardboard seating is moving on to a next generation of more adjustable, longer lasting seats with improved shaping, cushioning and harnessing. Moulded seating is still in development while materials are being sourced locally, hopefully including liquid Polyurethane foams from BASF chemicals for foam in place seating.

My next project has already started, building a foam carving duplicator machine so a copy can be cut straight from the Stabilo cast of the child’s shape, saving a lot of time and cost. This would mean the plaster of Paris body print would not be needed and a child can be test fitted while still at the clinic, potentially saving the family many hours of uncomfortable additional travelling.

Grateful for any assistance

Jolene and her team would be grateful for any assistance from professionals in all areas of rehabilitation services. This includes: PTs, OTs, SLTs, Orthopaedic Technicians, or people with experience in wheelchair or seating services. They’re always keen for people to buy and sell their paper products. And they have a £100 box challenge every Christmas where you retail £100 of their products to family and friends. For further information visit Sanctuary Artists website.

To find out more about the wonderful work going on at the sanctuary please click here.